Believe us Millie - JI sites can get just as bad! There have been some pretty awful posts pulled off several fan websites that I know about. The addage on the good web sites (or at least the more repectable ones) seems to be - don't post anything you would not want the actor's Mother or wife/partner to read. Who cares if they have never visited the site - it's just more respectful this way.I realized this place is respectful too. But you see, it seems to be a thing with JP fans... most forums/boards are full of sexually-oriented messages.
Cheers,
Marie